How does one succeed in life?
13.06.2025 05:12
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Ask yourself:
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Can you tell me a depressing story?
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
As a guy, how do you know you if you are considered attractive?
That's it for today.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Can anyone or anything overthrow your belief in the Jewish God?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
What is the most ridiculous obviously false verse in the Bible?
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
What was your first gay male experience?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Do not set goals—set systems.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Why is Eric Clapton so roundly disliked among guitarists?
Hangs out with loser friends.
Making more friends is a goal.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
What was your most memorable combat mission during the Vietnam War?
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Procrastinates a lot.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Does not procrastinate.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
What I need from you?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.